Growing Together: Gordon’s 450 Visits to Benholm Care

We’re always looking for ways to build connections with our local communities and whilst some begin with a plan, others happen by chance, like in Forfar, where one unexpected knock on the door led to something meaningful.

Ten years ago, Gordon Reid came to Benholm Care Home looking for somewhere to practice his Scottish accordion. 

This week marks his 450th visit.

Every Monday morning, he arrives with his accordion in tow and the music, stories and the warm humour residents know and love. Over the years, they’ve come to know Gordon’s family too, with regular visits from his wife and grandchildren who are now as much a part of the home as he is.

Gordon playing alongside nurse Eilidh on the violin.

Structure and familiarity can make a big difference for adults living with dementia and regular routines can reduce anxiety and support orientation. When that routine includes someone who knows your name, remembers your stories and sings songs you recognise, the benefits run even deeper. For many, music can also support cognitive function, improve attention and encourage movement. Singing in a group creates a shared sense of purpose and connection, helping people feel part of something and strengthening connections.

The impact goes both ways. Gordon volunteers his time because he loves the music, the people and the dancing, singing and smiles it brings. Even after all these years, he’s still practising, still learning new songs and residents are more than happy to be his sounding board. Unsurprisingly, they love them all.

Dancing along to the music.

At Each Other Care, our shared home communities are shaped by those who live here, those who work here and those like Gordon, who choose to keep coming back.

We’re so grateful for every Monday, every song and every moment you’ve shared with us. Thank you, Gordon.

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